You don’t need more “what ifs”. You need answers.
Marriage counseling
with Bill Devorick, LMFT
You don’t have to make a life-changing decision while feeling paralyzed by doubt. Whether you're trying to stay, leave, or just figure out what the hell you actually want—this is where you get clear.
You don’t need more
“what ifs.” You need answers.
Marriage Counseling
with Bill Devorick, LMFT
WHAT WE'RE GOING TO COVER
You’ve spent months—maybe years—asking yourself:
“Can this be fixed, or am I just delaying the inevitable?”
When every conversation ends in circles, every change feels temporary, and you can’t tell if you're staying out of love or fear, it’s time to stop guessing.
This isn’t about being told what to do. It’s about finally getting the clarity to make a decision you can live with—without guilt, without pressure, and without wasting more of your life feeling stuck.
Clarity When You Feel Trapped in Limbo
Clarify how to ask the right questions about staying or leaving, without spiraling into anxiety or guilt.
Balance the fear of leaving with the fear of staying, and stop feeling like neither choice is the right one.
Decide if stability without love or passion is something you can truly live with.
Reclaim Your Voice, Needs, and Sanity
Express your needs without every conversation blowing up or leading to accusations.
Stop second-guessing your concerns when your partner’s actions make you feel unseen and unheard.
Navigate emotional manipulation or guilt trips that keep you in place, even when you’re exhausted.
Set boundaries around sex, money, parenting, and space—without feeling like the bad guy.
Plan Your Next Move—Whatever That Is
Decide if counseling is enough to save your relationship—or if you're too out of energy to keep trying.
Create a plan for separation or rebuilding, based on clarity—not pressure or fear.
Determine if trial separation, living apart, or redefining the relationship could work, without feeling like you're giving up.
Protect your mental and emotional well-being, whether you stay, leave, or are still deciding.
HOW IT WORKS
The Crossroads Solution
You don’t need another “let’s try harder” conversation that ends in frustration and no follow-through.
You need a structured, step-by-step path that cuts through the confusion, ends the blame game, and helps you decide if this relationship is even worth saving.
The Crossroads Solution is a no-BS process that helps you face what’s really going on, get honest about what needs to change, and rebuild a relationship that actually works for both of you—or move on with clarity and peace of mind.
Phases of the Program
Phase 1: Face the Truth and Get Unstuck
CONFRONT – Identify recurring patterns, stop avoiding hard truths, and break free from denial.
ASSESS – Evaluate effort, compatibility, and long-term potential without sugarcoating.
COMMIT – Decide whether to stay, leave, or restructure the relationship—without second-guessing yourself.
Phase 2: Resolve the Core Issues and End the Blame Game
Master Conflict Without Destroying Your Marriage – Handle arguments without guilt, fear, or shutting down.
Get Honest About the Issues – Have the hard conversations, face uncomfortable truths, and take off the mask.
Establish Boundaries That Protect Love – Set expectations, stop outside interference, and rebuild trust.
Phase 3: Rebuild a relationship that works for both of you
Reignite Emotional & Physical Connection – Stop coasting and start thriving together again.
Create a Sustainable Partnership – Move forward as equals—no more one-sided effort.
Lock in Lasting Change – Navigate future challenges and build a vision that actually works for both of you.
You’ve been stuck long enough.
This is where you stop living in limbo, stop settling for “good enough,” and start building a life—and a relationship—that actually feels right.
Meet Bill Devorick, LMFT
Most people think that once you're married, the hardest part is over—but no one talks about what happens when you wake up one day and wonder if this is really it.
Maybe you've been carrying the weight of the relationship for years, wondering if love is enough. Maybe the spark has faded, and you're trying to decide if stability is worth living without passion. Or maybe you're just so emotionally drained that you can't even tell what you want anymore—only that you can’t keep feeling this stuck.
I help couples and individuals cut through the noise and get clear about what’s possible, what’s not, and what’s actually worth fighting for.
No false hope. No pressure to stay or leave. Just the space, tools, and support to figure out what’s right for you—so you can finally stop spinning your wheels and start living your life again.
Meet Bill Devorick, LMFT
Most people think that once you're married, the hardest part is over—but no one talks about what happens when you wake up one day and wonder if this is really it.
Maybe you've been carrying the weight of the relationship for years, wondering if love is enough. Maybe the spark has faded, and you're trying to decide if stability is worth living without passion. Or maybe you're just so emotionally drained that you can't even tell what you want anymore—only that you can’t keep feeling this stuck.
I help couples and individuals cut through the noise and get clear about what’s possible, what’s not, and what’s actually worth fighting for.
No false hope. No pressure to stay or leave. Just the space, tools, and support to figure out what’s right for you—so you can finally stop spinning your wheels and start living your life again.
FAQS
How does this program work?
This program is structured as weekly video sessions over a 90-day period. From the confort and privacy of your home, you'll find that the natual environment allows you to privately talk about what really matters, and practice new tools in real time. Each session targets different phases crucial for couples. We cover expressing needs, navigating emotional reactions, and rebuilding trust. The sessions include practical exercises, personalized discussions, and continuous support to ensure significant improvements in understanding, emotional connection, and communication within your relationship.
What's covered in the program?
This program covers essential aspects necessary for re-engaging with one another. We focus on enhancing communication, managing emotional reactions, advocating for personal needs, and fostering intimacy. You'll learn how to break negative cycles, communicate effectively even under stress, express needs without fear, and ultimately strengthen your emotional bond.
Who is this program for, and not for?
This therapy is ideal for individuals and couples eager to change and improve their relationships. It’s particularly beneficial for those experiencing communication breakdowns, emotional struggles, feelings of disconnection, or ruptures in trust. If you’re looking for quick fixes or are not ready to engage in the therapeutic work, this might not be the right fit for you.
What if I’m still not sure?
It’s completely normal to feel uncertain about starting a therapy program. That’s why we offer a free initial consultation. This session will help us understand your unique challenges and goals, and you'll learn how our program might address your specific needs. It's a no-pressure opportunity to see if this approach feels right for you and your partner.
The Crossroads Solution with Bill Devorick, LMFT
You don’t have to stay stuck in indecision. Get clear, take control, and figure out what’s truly worth fighting for.
The Crossroads Solution with Bill Devorick, LMFT
You don’t have to stay stuck in indecision. Get clear, take control, and figure out what’s truly worth fighting for.
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